Tired of pricey romance? Here's a budget-friendly fix | Dave Schilling

A few months back, I urged young folks

A few months back, I urged young folks not to give up on love, to resist cynicism, and to ignore those so-called 'loneliness influencers' pushing anti-social ideas as if they were groundbreaking. But now I'm here to admit I can't be right all the time. Maybe flying solo is the smarter play—especially when the bill for a night out can be brutal.

Across the country, it seems many young singles are skipping dates because the cost is just too high. This isn't just my hunch; it's backed by a wave of recent reports. The New York Times, for instance, highlighted that a typical date—two mains, two drinks, an appetizer, plus tip—can easily hit $150 or more, which is a dealbreaker for many in Gen Z.

My first thought? Only $150? That sounds like a bargain compared to some of my own experiences. I once dated a well-known political figure from the late '90s (humble brag) and spent double that on a single evening, nearly giving my bank account a heart attack. The chemistry was nonexistent, and the age gap was obvious, but I still splurged on dessert, hoping to salvage something. In the end, I paid for everything and walked away with a great party anecdote instead of a second date.

The real issue isn't the cost of romance

The real issue isn't the cost of romance itself—it's the expectation that a date must involve expensive dinners and drinks. But here's the thing: a date can be anything you make it. A walk in the park, a visit to a free museum, or even a coffee at a cozy café can be just as meaningful, without the financial strain.

What matters is the connection, not the price tag. So, if you're feeling the pinch, don't give up on dating altogether. Get creative, keep it simple, and remember that the best dates are often the ones that cost the least—and leave you with stories worth telling.